Are there any places where assisted suicide (not for the terminally-ill) is legal?
I hope I don’t get banned, just need some advice.
I couldn’t do it. I’m a coward. I’ve researched some methods and the quickest most painless is either jumping off a high-rise building or cyanide tabs. I’ve tried the first one, but I cowered, and I thought I don’t want to cause trouble to anybody when I die, I just want to exit quietly. The second one is just unavailable. Overdose of sleeping pills might do it but they need prescription. Concocting poison myself might be ineffective, what if it isn’t strong enough and I don’t die? I can’t buy a pistol from where I live.
My original plan is to take my life when I reached 40-50, that’s the time when I stopped being a productive member of the society. But things changed.
I am 27. I am educated, have a monotonous job that pays enough. Most of my earnings I send to my parents who are alone and very old, I just keep something that’s enough for myself, enough to survive the month and to buy things that will momentarily keep me happy. For the last 6 years I have also been alone, I eat alone, go out and watch movies alone. I do everything myself, for myself. I exercise every morning, take vitamins, go to work everyday, go home and surf the net, sleep. I go to church every weekend, chat with my parents, mingle with friends. I read & finish a book every month, move to another, learn something new, move to another. That’s about it about me, except that I never had a girl my entire life, never had sex my entire life, and I know the reason.
Shallow as it may sound , but for me, it is a very deep flaw. I am underweight and my genital is undersized, and it is a fact.
I’ve already known for a while that this flaw may cause a problem for me, my self-esteem. That’s why I started a program about a year ago. I asserted myself that I will bulk up. I’ve consulted a professional. I started a six meal program everyday, started a jelqing program, bought some enhancement pills, did everything rigorously to improve; as much as I could afford.
Things didn’t go very well, I could barely see the results. I asked another doctor, he said that the reason is both heredity and the nature of my job which is sedentary. I said that I could do nothing about my genes, and about my job, I said that programming is all that I know and I love to do. He said that I should be more confident and that size is unimportant and he said that I’m not ugly. I don’t really worry about my looks, my biggest concern is pleasing a woman sexually, and “being able to protect her”.
I didn’t stop the program, but I followed his advice, I started dating some women. At first it was good, the feeling was good. Women seemed to like me. But things just went as far as dating, kissing, but no sex, no real relationship. Until this girl came.
Don’t know how to describe her. For me she’s the most beautiful girl, smart, kind-hearted, decent, sexy. At first I thought she was also attracted to me, when we’re together, she really likes to cling to my arms, she always smiles at me, she laughs at my jokes, we like the same things, listen to the same music, she is perfect and I was resolved that I am going to ask her to marry me.
Last week, I learned that she got back with her ex.
The bite didn’t sink at first, my mind didn’t accept. I want to know for sure so I confronted her, she confessed. She was very honest. She wasn’t that cruel, but she admitted that she never felt any attraction; I know she meant sexual attraction, for me. I cried that day, but hey it’s just life, it’s not the end of the world. I talked to her bf, who is a big guy, good-looking, intelligent, nice, with a good job, told him how lucky he is. I should have punched him and provoked him, so that he could snap my neck, then I wouldn’t be asking this question.
I was so f***ing stupid. I already know this is going to happen. The doctor lied. SIZE does matter, and yes, women have a certain instinct to determine whether a man could please them sexually. I don’t know why I believed a lie, I guess maybe it’s because I don’t believe in the measures of society. I forgot that male dominance doesn’t only apply to society; it extends to the whole animal kingdom. BIG males get the females, the territory. The thing about size doesn’t matter and it all boils down to performance in bed, and about true love and all, is a big pile of BS. NORMAL sex is a part of healthy relationship. I should have consulted a whore instead, but I was raised a Christian. Priesthood? Too late now.
Social status, pheromone levels, good genes and hormones, phallus size, dominance, intelligence, these are what’s important for a man in this so called life. But I couldn’t say I didn’t see it coming. I knew this already, and I know didn’t have them, that’s why I marked 40-50 as my end, yet, I give some chance to this stupid…, I don’t know what to call it. The past few days, I seek reason to get up; I just seek comfort in thought that billions have broken hearts as well. A
If she had loved you then there would have been other ways in which you could have pleased her sexually.. Oral sex.. manual stimulation.. size is not everything.. I do believe that there was no other connection there that she felt. I am sure it was not all about size. I don’t even believe she will be happy going back to her ex.. even if he is a nice guy and she may be a nice woman…. but it seldom works out if a couple separated and then they try to get back together.. they must have separated for a reason… unless they change a lot in their relationship they can’t be happy either… You need to bulk up your self esteem. Believe in yourself.. Don’t just sit at home at weekends.. Join a club.. Make some friends.
Priests become priests out of conviction that this is the right thing to do because they have such faith in god.. Men don’t join priesthood because a priest is forbidden to have a relationship with a woman or can’t have a relationship with a woman.. You need to do something that will help you to build up your self esteem.. Do something that makes you feel better as a human being… follow a goal or do something for others who are really worse off than you are.
You are not stupid and you could go to evening classes and you could learn something new.. you don’t have to have an IQ above 100 which is normal and average for a human being… and you don’t have to believe that the size of a male part is everything that makes a relationship a happy one.. If this woman had loved you, there are other ways to please a woman than this way.. and other ways for her to please you…no matter about size if the relationship has a deep enough foundation.. based on a great friendship .. mutual respect, trust and honesty.. that has to be there.. and to be able to talk to each other about everything.. have things in common.. a common outlook on life.. No, it does not all boil down to that one thing.. there are men who are in a relationship and even married who are paralyzed from the waist down.. they have no feeling from below their waistline.. so they can’t feel.. they can still make a woman happy in a sexual way.. You have hands.. Oral sex is also possible… I don’t believe that the size of your part is what really ended this.. I believe the connection was just not strong enough to start with.. she was on the rebound from the relationship that had just ended with her BF.. so it was a bad timing.. Believe in yourself.. go to get some councelling to get your self esteem built up.. that is all that needs building up.. There are lots and lots of other ways to satisfy a woman.. but a relationship has to be build up first.. from a friendship into something stronger… xxx
No, that is illegal everywhere.. it is legal and allowed in the Netherlands to assist someone who suffers from an incurable illness which will get worse and finally lead to death.. to assist that person a doctor will do it in that case if there is no hope for recovering and if this person lives a life of agony.. then a doctor in the Netherlands will and can assist to end this persons life.. with medication.. but only if there is no hope, if this person suffers physically, if the pain and suffering are severe and if there is no cure.. then in the Netherlands a doctor can do this.. the person has to be mentally alert.. and sign a paper. then he can get assistance to terminate his life because of severe pain and no hope of ever getting better.. to assist someone with suicide just because they are a certain age.. that would be called murder and that is definitely a crime.. There is a reason for you to live.. think of the poor people who realy suffer and who would want to live and have no option ..Life is not guaranteed to have no thorns, life can be unfair, that can make you stronger instead of weaker.. you can get up again and say that you will fight.. you move on and find a new goal worthy of living for.. you don’t just give up on life… Life is not easy all the time but for most problems a solution can be found. One can talk to someone.. get help. Seek help.. and don’t talk about assisted suicide.. I am 46 I have suffered from chronic pain for the past 16 years.. I would be a pathetic person if I gave up my life because of that.. others have to suffer more than I do.. I can understand someone suffering horrfic physical pain with no cure possible that they get help in the Netherlands from a doctor. They are mentally alert but the situation is hopeless.. they suffer horribly every moment of their life so I understand that.. but not for other reasons.